Fifty Shades Of Surprises

Ever have a day that was just full of surprises? Today was that kind of day for me. But it started with a not-so-great-surprise. And then with some customers yelling at me for part of the morning, which is part of the job. But today, well, today it was harder to take.

Sometimes, the world just doesn’t seem to agree with you and your decisions. But instead of looking at the glass half empty, I decided to look at it half full.

I can’t sweat the small stuff. I know what I am capable of and I work hard everyday to reach my goals. And at the end of the day, that is all that matters. Because no one cares about my goals and dreams more than I do. And same goes for you.

It’s okay to be a little selfish sometimes.

Your mental and physical health are both important and need to be worked on a daily basis. Life is always throwing curve balls at us, and if we can’t handle the curve balls. Then life is going to be much harder than it needs to.

Here’s what I do when I start to think negative thoughts:

  1.      I stop and think about how I’m feeling. I acknowledge my feelings but refuse to keep thinking that way (I change my mindset)
  2.      I start to think of the upside of the bad news. With bad news, there’s always a positive. Try to think of what it is, whether it’s something you’ve learned from it. Or something you don’t have to deal with anymore, etc…
  3.      I remember that I ALWAYS have a choice.
  4.      I choose to not waste my day with negativity, I choose happiness. And then I focus on my goal of the day (whatever it may be).

Mindset is everything. Always make sure you are aware of your feelings because that is how you can change them. I said it on my last post, and I’ll say it again. You are ALWAYS in full control of your FEELINGS, DAY, and LIFE.

Now, I did say FIFTY shades of surprises. The other surprise was a good one! I got my amazing “BEYANDALL” sunglasses!! They are to DIE for, so I wanted to share- if you haven’t already seen on my insta “fear_ordinary.”


How cute is that package though?! I love pink and white.


It’s called “Whatever It Takes”

I thought it was fitting for the subject above  🙂

Do whatever it takes to be happy, fight for a positive mindset. And your life will be better lived.

That’s all for now babes!




Welcome to Fear Ordinary! I hope you enjoy my world of positive messages, fashion and realness. I love to share my life experiences and challenges. And hope that by sharing them, you will find you are not alone. Thanks for stopping by! xx Talita

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