Category: Realness

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REALNESS is where I get down and dirty about life, everyday challenges, and ways to live the best life possible without following the crowd.

World Mental Health Day: My story

Today is World Mental Health Day _______________ Did you know 1 in 5 Adults have a mental health condition? Youth health is also worsening, and 80% of them are left with no or insufficient treatment When I was about eleven years old, I moved to the U.S. with my parents and six-year-old brother We moved […]

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“Don’t fear fear-face it”

Today, I’m devastated I don’t think anything has hit me as close to home as much as the Vegas shooting I’ll be at that hotel celebrating my birthday this year I also lost my godmother today I know this is a site to show how to live a happy life But read on and maybe […]

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Body Image: How to overcome it

“Dear you, make peace with the mirror and watch your reflection change.“   Today, I would like to talk about body image. The way we see ourselves in the mirror every morning/night has a lot to do with our mental state Many women today are influenced by their definition of what’s “beautiful” by social media, […]

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Balance: Business & Pleasure

Let’s talk life balance today. Because business and pleasure, please! ___________________________________________________________________________________________ I’ve had a job since I was legally able to work in the U.S (age: 16 years old) After graduating High School, I needed more than a PT job to pay the bills though So “adulting” began in the summer of ’06 I found […]

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Transparency: Discover your RAW self again!

Look at me smiling from the inside out in the picture above And ask yourself, “When was the last time I truly felt deep/meaningful happiness?” Like the type that you almost feel like you want to cry from finally arriving to that state of mind _____________________ Today, I want to share a little more about […]

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Best practices to get you hyped up for 2017: Look of the week!

HAPPY NEW YEAR, YOU GUYS! 🙂 I can’t even begin to share my excitement for ALL of us We have 365 days to do whatever it is we set ourselves out to do However, as much as I love the concept of thinking of the entire year ahead of us to reach our goals There’s […]

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Breast Augmentation Part II: The Aftermath, ups and downs

Since I’ve started my blog back a year ago, my top post has been “Sleeping Positions After Breast Augmentation“ And because I’m getting readers from literally all over the world looking for answers, I figured let’s talk about it (P.S. Thank you to all my readers for your love and support. You guys keep me […]

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How to let go of 2016 and start fresh-Beyonce Style

How do we LET GO of 2016 baggage and start fresh?! Let’s start by saying… BOY, BYE! (insert Beyonce’s “bye face” here) I think so many of us feel the same way about this year The Universe must have had a lot of negative energy all throughout to send us back all these challenges But […]

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Get Holiday Inspired: All Things Red & Nude Please!

I want to start by saying a heartfelt THANK YOU to those who served and continue to serve our Country I was not born in the U.S. but I take pride in being a U.S. Citizen And with that, I try to learn as much as I can about its history. So here are some facts […]

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Give Monday the cold shoulder with me!

Mondays done right are Mondays you can conquer with a smile on your face A Monday you can give the “cold shoulder” to. Because a day of the week can’t “tell” you what kind of day to have. Neither can anyone. You are in FULL control of your mood and of your day, today and […]

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